IDEA FROM ME
Overthinking is internal and fear-based. Observation is external and reality-based.
Overthinking is internal and fear-based, it’s you flipping through worst-case scenarios and imagined judgments.
Observation is external and reality-based.
It pulls you out of your head and into the room.
Instead of asking “What if I mess this up?” you ask, “What’s actually happening right now that I can notice or comment on?”
QUOTE
"He who can handle the quickest rate of change survives."
- John Boyd
LINK
Podcast: The Social OODA Loop: Fighter Pilot Thinking for Everyday Confidence.
Most people freeze because they don’t have a system.
In this episode, I’ll show you how a fighter pilot’s mental model can help you stay present, respond faster, and build real social momentum, no overthinking required.
QUESTION
Where in your life do you need less “What if?” and more “What’s next?”
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I'm Jeff Callahan
I make it nearly impossible for overthinkers to fail at improving their people skills. (I've helped hundreds of people over the last 10 years)
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