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Charisma Expert Felicia Spahr: Group Conversations, Creating Rapport, and Getting Digits

7/21/2015

 
On this episode of Become More Compelling Radio, I am joined by my friend Felicia Spahr.

Felicia has been featured in INC, Fast Company, Business Insider, The Huffington Post, I Will Teach You To Be Rich, Entrepreneur on Fire, Mind, Body, Green, and many others.

I love this conversation for so many reasons. After listening to this episode you will be able to:

• Craft an amazing introduction (10:00)
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• Focus on the right things during group conversations (15:40)

• Create rapport during one-on-one conversations (38:02)

• Know how and when to exchange contact information (46:20)
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"A good principle to remember is: Don't give people a reason to walk away." - Fel
It's basically a tactical guide to thrive at your next dinner party, conference, or networking event.


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How To Make A Fantastic First Impression (Middle Finger Optional)

3/2/2015

 
Two things today:

1. Story.
2. Video.

Have you ever made a cringe-worthy first impression? 

I've made a few, but I think my wife wins the golden chalice of cringe with this one:

A few years ago she was at her boss' house for a party. ​
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There was a mix of friends, family and co-workers.
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Middle Finger Optional

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How To Conquer Your Inner Fears and Start a Conversation With Anyone

1/28/2015

 
One of the most common social skills questions I get is: 

"How do I start a conversation?!"

It's not rocket science, but it's about as terrifying as being strapped to a rocket.

To answer this question, I brought in an expert: the magnetic Felicia of Instantly Irresistible.

She's the real deal, and she created a video on how to conquer your inner fears and start a conversation with anyone.
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Her gazes have been known to bring puppies back to life.
Also, she has a free gift for Become More Compelling readers. BOOM.

Enter Felicia:


I remember after reading Neil Strauss’s famous book, The Game, I was fascinated by this idea of ‘approach anxiety’. 

It’s typically what a lot of men feel as they are about to approach women -- a tightness in their chest, sweating, and of course, the prominent fear of being rejected.

But what I realized is that ‘approach anxiety’ is not limited to just men. Women feel it, too! And even I experience it myself--and this is what I help people with for a living. When I’m at an event and see a stranger I want to start talking to, my heart starts beating faster, I become self-conscious, and I start to think: “What am I going to SAY?”

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Winning At Small Talk: 2 Common Social Mistakes (And How To Cure them)

7/8/2014

 
Guys. Real talk for a second...

Are you somewhat uncomfortable making small talk with people you barely know? How about people you would like to know better?

Small talk got you terrified? Watch this...
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Power Posing: A Cheat Code For Your Social Life (Updated)

7/8/2014

 
What if I told you that I can make you more assertive, confident and comfortable in two minutes? Pretty sweet, huh?

Well, I can't. But you can. (ooh, tell me more!)

There is this awesome technique called "power posing" and you should be doing it EVERY DAY.

It takes two minutes and could change your entire life. Here's the video:
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