Something really messed up happened to me the other day...
I was on the receiving end of possibly some of the WORST eye-contact in history.
It was spooky...but it got me thinking about eye-contact, and how we can all be better at it.
I explain more in this video:
Eye contact is SO important when it comes to connecting with your fellow humans, and the CRAZY thing is that most people will never even realize that they are HORRIBLE at it.
And the worst part is: no one will tell you if you are bad at it...(unless you ask them)
This brings me to my next point:
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1. Grab an HONEST friend and ask him if you make good or bad eye contact. Do it. This will give you the feedback you need to improve.
2. Over the next week, focus on making eye contact with EVERYONE you speak with while you are talking. This will do two things. (1) It will create a positive feedback loop that will make you feel more empowered during your social interactions. (2) You will become a eye contact ninja...and you will start noticing other people's eye contact. Think of it as tuning into a radio frequency that you never knew existed before.
Sweet. you're on your way to becoming an eye contact ninja...two quick things:
-If you know someone who needs to make better eye contact...send this article to them because they desperately need you to help them.
-Leave a comment telling me about your best or worst eye contact story.
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